Having a blog is demanding. They extract from you valuable time and mental energy. They are also enriching. A blog is to look into the person who writes them. They are said to be a form of “naked conversation” with oneself. And so is the case of this posting.
It has been two years since my last posting. It has been a very enriching time for us and a very difficult time. In his book, The Road Less Traveled, author M. Scott Peck begins his book with a profound statement. “Life is difficult.” Since our last posting, Diana and I have traveled a difficult road.
Shortly after our last posting on Dec. 2005, I received a call that my sister, Carole, had been admitted into the hospital and only had a few days left. The lung cancer that she had fought for the previous six months had come back with a vengeance. She died before we could fly down Florida to be with her.
Carole was our north star. She was the one Diana and I turned to when we eloped thirty two years ago. She was the one that we turned to when Diana fought her battles with breast cancer over the last twenty years. And she was the one who dropped everything to take care of both of us in 2003, when both Diana and I were diagnosed with cancer.
My sister Barbara found this poem that expresses what we need to remember when there are unanswered questions as to why difficulties come into our lives.
To those who face their own difficulties in life…
Remembered Joy
Don't grieve for me, for now I am free.
I followed the plan God laid for me.
I saw his face, I heard his call
I took his hand and left it all.
I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work, to play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
And if my parting had left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss
These things, I too, shall will miss.
My life's been full, I've savored much
Good friends, good time, a loved ones touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief.
Don't shorten yours with undone grief.
Be not burdened with tears of sorrow,
Enjoy the sunshine of tomorrow.
Carole, we will miss you beyond what words can convey.
Peace, love, and may God be by your side,
Steve & Diana
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